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  How to get whatever you want. Whatever you want is not in your possession right now, but you can bring it home by; 1. defining it clearly, 2. knowing the path that leads there, 3. having the courage to turn back when you fail and begin again, 4. and finally, by refusing to quit,         until you win. Those who win in life are those who have dreams, dreams that make them sleepless and restless, dreams that make them understand and accept that friendship begins and friendship ends, dreams that make them realize that life goes on and that happiness is within, and it comes from living, to do what others call work but winners call play. Then when you live everyday to play the game you love, you put yourself in the position to have anything you want; because your love would get you out of the bed every morning, to traverse the earth with the rising sun, when others are still dreaming, then love gives you the humility to surrender to nature, the greatest teacher; to...

 Naturally, your love life is meant to be as simple as having someone to love completely and the person loves you back in equal proportion. It's the completeness of a simple kind of love that raises the pillars of security, dependability and inner peace in a relationship. If this simplicity is missing in your love life, it means you are in a complicated relationship. A complicated relationship rests on the foundation of uncertainty and insecurity. It produces absence of feelings of having a supportive and understanding partner. It may sometimes give the feeling that "It's better to be single than to be in a complicated relationship." In a complicated relationship, the support base is eroded by your partner's refusal to remove 'buts' and show total commitment and also, by their refusal to share their attention, time, energy and love with anyone else except you. No total commitment by your partner means that you're definitely sharing them with someone el...

is self discovery possible in a relationship? For the person on the unfovaroble side of an imbalanced relationship, self discovery is an uphill task. A balanced relationship where partners share love, attention and support equally, self discovery is made easy  As a victim of a lopsided toxic relationship, finding the time, space and energy to focus on the task of finding oneself is always going to be extremely difficult. A victim of a loveless relationship could only find their authentic self by reason of accidental awakening. But for someone in a great relationship where good love flows, the process of self discovery is rarely accidental. It's often a conscious effort, borne out of a genuine support by one for the personal dreams and growth of another. Whether your relationship supports your self discovery efforts or not, it's worth it, because the benefits are many.   So, make the commitment to understand the real you and your real worth. Because after you've discovered a...

  When you come to the end of the road after traveling together with a partner for so long, goodbyes have never been easy to say. The difficulty to say goodbyes have caused many to quietly withdraw. They suddenly cut off communication links with former loved ones and fade away with no reasons given.  The sudden disappearance leaves the abandoned ex confused, heartbroken and wondering often, "What did I do wrong?" But relationships don't have to end this way between two adults who one time seemed inseparable and were a source of strong support to each other. You can end a relationship without burning the bridge of friendship.  So, how can you break up nicely with your partner?  1. Be sure you really want to break up: Be sure that it's what you really want. Some have broken up abruptly with someone, moved on to have other failed relationships and realizes later that the one they ended abruptly was their best.  Breaking up and regretting later coule be avoided when...

  Love burns and turns the wise into a fool, follow your heart but take your brain with you, your brain is the ability of the sixth sense that will save you from burning in hell.

  Is it the fear of death?  Or are the fears of boredom, rejection, suffering and self confrontation hunting you? If it’s the fear of death then you have nothing to fear because everyone will die.  For every living human being, the real purpose of life lies between the beginning and the end. Now what is this real purpose?  The real purpose of life is not to live forever but to use the gift of life to do what you love and share your love with a world that never forgets worthy contributions. Chuck Palahniuk captures the purpose of life in the following words; ”We all die. The goal isn’t to live forever, but to create something that will.” Set goals for yourself and go about working hard to achieve them. Be absorbed in your pursuits and when the fear of death occasionally sneaks up on you, find strength in George R.R.Martin’s words and push it aside; “What do we say to the Lord of death? Not today.” Are you afraid of boredom? You don’t need to be, you can create excitem...